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Question by : Does true love exist in reality or is it just a matter of fantasy,imagination and chemical reactions etc?
I always wonder whether true love between opposite sexes exist in reality .If it exists then what is it.

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Answer by typical-girl
After experiencing it first hand i can confidently say it does exist. Although, “love” is not something that can be described, or there is no right or wrong way to look at it. Every couple, every person every single part of “love” or “being in love” is different. They have their own ways of seeing it, of making it spark, of feeling it. It is a beautiful thing, and i only wish one day you will find it. Love will bring a fantasy into your world. Good luck!

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Question by I love you too!: What is the difference between love based on needs and true love?
So some people believe that they love another person. But if you look closely they stay with this other person as this person fulfills some needs or makes them feel well. This has in my view not so much to do with love but more with selfishness.
What is in your view the difference between so called love based on fulfillment of some needs and so called “true love”.

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Question by Nathan: Whats a great effective fast working love spell i could use to attract true love and affection?
hi i was wondering if there were any greatly effective fast working love spells anyone can send me for free, aso if possible i dont have any friends, and if anybody knows a good spell to use to attract great friendship and friends i’d also appreciate that, thank you very much to whoever helps me out and have a great day to you all……

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Answer by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥
My friend swears by Emily Post’s book of Etiquette.

But a magic spell? Sorry there isn’t such a thing.

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Question by Angelia: How do I attract love into my life?
I have never experienced true love. Men come and go, but no one has left a lasting imprint on my heart. I have been married and divorced, but I look back on my relationship with my ex and realized that I was never in love with him.

The concept of love has always fascinated me, but I’ve never had the pleasure of this wonderful experience.

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Answer by WORD UP G
when u give up searching that’s when you will find your answer!

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Sometimes a different cultural perspective can be helpful when we ponder the way to happiness. People from other countries may have different values on what is needed to be happy. Or perhaps they look at the same issues but see them from a slightly different perspective. The following article obviously is heartfelt and the author writes from personal experience. Do share your on thoughts with us by adding your comments.

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You…Your Emotions…Your Relations…Your Happiness and Your Life…

By Sanjeev Sharma

We are living in an era, where relations’ management is at its low. If the IT or ITES/BPO industry is promoting relations among the employees…the short duration of relations is also a gift of it. There are numerous cases of divorces, I have witnessed in last couple of years, wherein couples decided to separate within one year of marriage. Why so???

It is very easy to say, “I love you” to people around you but how many of us really understand the meaning, probably, no one. Recently, we had a hot debate on the effect looks/attractiveness in selection/rejection of candidate in interview, but, in fact looks (or I can say glamour) is also important in our personal relations. Asking a male to date an unattractive female is as much similar to asking a female to date a non-wealthy male.

Let me share with you that “I love you” is difficult to say (at least if you are not a flirt) and more difficult to understand. Every “I love you” is a promise, a commitment to stand by the person you love- whatever the odds, whatever the outcome, whatever the cost. Every “I love you” is a pact. A sworn oath to stick by each other, to be there for each other, no matter what personal sacrifice is necessary, and no matter what Consequences may befall.

Every “I love you” has nothing to do with touches, or kisses, or sweet nothings whispered in an attentive ear.” I love you” is more than all these things. It means loyalty and honor and trust without the expectation of the same in return.

There is a very famous quote in English,

If you love someone, Set them free…

If they come back, they are yours,

If they don’t, they were never there to begin with…

Most of my life I have been an outsider and yet I have learned from my experiences and others what true love is. The most purest love is unconditional love. You may be asking me what do I mean by unconditional love? When I say unconditional love, I mean no strings are attached. Perhaps, we should go more in-depth and explain what no strings attached means.

We will first go into explaining what unconditional love means. Unconditional means you will love a person no matter what happens between the two of you. A friendship is a good place to start. When I have asked many people what a friend is, I get many different answers.

A friend is someone you talk to once in a while.

A friend is someone I talk to on the phone all the time.

A friend is someone I do things with that has the same interests.

A true friend does not even match these definitions that people have said. Now, I will explain the way I understand what a true friend is. A true friend is one who will treat another person like a human being all the time.

When you find a person like this in your life (male or female), that kind of friendship is so sacred and a very beautiful thing to have. That person will always be there for you no matter what the situation is, it is the purest love that two people can ever share.

There is another kind of pure love, but it is not as pure as two friend’s love can be. It is also a beautiful thing and there are things that this love has that a friendship will never have. When two people after being friends for a long time, develop a new feeling where they want to get closer emotionally, they take the next step and become a part of each other.

This is the third purest kind of love. There are no strings attached. It is totally unconditional because both people feel the same way. They are not trying to impress each other that they love one another because they both know how they are feeling. This is one of the purest loves that can happen.

Of course, they may feel a physical attraction towards another or not. That is not really relevant. The love is pure because there are no preconceived notions before hand. In other words, you are not out to make this girl or guy, your boyfriend/girlfriend.

Now the problem occurs when you are so close with the opposite gender as a friend that you decide that now would be a good time to get into a relationship and then realize things are not going so well. You try as hard as you can to make the relationship work, but you both fail miserably. Not only does your relationship fall apart, you are no longer friends.

You realize too late that you should both never have gotten into a relationship. I have learned in my personal experiences, there is a strong intimacy that the opposite genders both feel when they get real close to each other.

In friendship, it can be quite powerful and very emotional. The problem occurs when this feeling of love that you have in your friendship becomes confused with being in love with that person. The best way to find out if both people feel the same way is to communicate and learn about each other as much as possible.

You should know the person inside and out because if you do not and jump into a relationship, the chances are your relationship will not last very long and your friendship will be over.

The normal way most people go about getting into a relationship is being attracted to that person and perhaps emotionally attached. They proceed in making this person their boyfriend or girlfriend and yet they know very little about this person. The relationship continues and there is constant fighting. There is no communication. The man thinks he is right and the woman thinks she is right.

Meanwhile the relationship is getting worse. Ultimately, the two break up and both people feel they were used as either sexual objects or being used to give the man or woman status without caring that each of them are people. The ideal way of developing a good relationship is to learn more about the other person by communicating and getting to know what this person’s ideals and values are.

The worst thing you can do is have preconceived notions about a person you do not even know. You are searching for a needle in a haystack and the chance of your relationship not working is 99.

The most ideal relationship is marriage. A marriage is the second purest type of love two people can have for each other. The most ideal marriage is if you are friends already. You have both parts of the equation: the unconditional friendship and the love that no friendship can ever compare with. The problem occurs when two people start attaching strings to their significant other.

The marriage struggles because it is not unconditional any more. Each person feels they have to do things to show they love each other. When you love someone, you do it because you love them, not because you have to show you love them.

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, coworker, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.

Sometimes we may think that the person we love is the only one that is worth it for us. But I must say that having a broken heart is just a part of life, one that must be endured and overcome.

However, it is pointless to stay that way. “Love” does not mean holding on to feelings and being “devoted” to someone you couldn’t have anyway; it is wanting what’s best for the other person, even if it means that you don’t get what you want. That’s not to say that the pain shouldn’t exist, or that it will fade away just like that, but truelove desires the happiness of the one you love.

Life is very funny and interesting as well, as I mentioned to you…the other day, “aiesa nahi hai ki duniya mein pyar nahi milta per jahan umid ho iski wahan nahi milta”

If we can realize these things beforehand, we can save that piece of our heart for someone else–someone who will share a life with us in a union so beautifully that we would cry tears of joy at the thought of it, as opposed to the tears of pain.

Letting go. It is difficult for us in so many ways and on so many levels. Yet life calls upon us to do it, over and over again. Letting go is part of our growth process. We cannot move on to the new while continuing to cling to the old.

Most importantly, if you LOVE someone tell him or her, for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.

· Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.

· Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen.

· Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high.

· Hold your head up because you have every right to.

· Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.

· You can make of your life anything you wish.

· Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.

That all, I can say…live your life…as it comes, live for your present…your future…not for your past. Enjoy your life…because this is a path…you will never walk again.

Looking forward to your comments. Enjoy this festival time with your near and dear ones and pleaseee…do take care of yourself.

Regards,

Sanjeev Sharma
Mobile: 9890788259
Pune-India
E-mail: ss_himachali@yahoo.com; s070976@yahoo.com
Blog: http://sanjeevhimachali.blogspot.com/

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True Love: Dying Reveals Secrets To Great Relationships
Authors actual near death experience changed his life and revealed secrets of healthy relationships, keys to true love, happiness, joy and success. Author is a leading therapist and coach. His suspenseful, enlightening account is all true!
True Love: Dying Reveals Secrets To Great Relationships

This is True Love by Angels and Airwaves, it was split into two parts (Star of Bethlehem and True Love), both are on I Empire. Official Lyrics (if there are any mistakes in the lyrics, its in the official booklet) the snow has come down on top of everything. the town is alive and well without you. the lights they pier out, of the leafless trees. and you won’t be alone, i am beside you. true love, the stars in the sky illuminate below, the light is the sign that love will guide you home. the stars in the sky illuminate below, if the world were to die, the light will guide you. tears spilling out across a dead end street, your house is a lonely box that holds you. a star, bright and loud, is in dire need, of that fear, it is an empty fear inside you. true love, the stars in the sky illuminate below, the light is the sign that love will guide you home. the stars in the sky illuminate below, if the world were to die, the light will guide you.
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Wondering about whether you Have True Love or are dating for other reasons is a question women often consider when trying to get a bearing on where their lives are headed. It can help to consider the thoughts of others who have also looked deeply into the direction a relationship is taking and whether a change is needed. Leave your comments and let us know what you think.

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True Love Vs a Whole Lot of Like

By Caterina Christakos

Sure, most of us have been brought up on the idea that we should be on a never-ending quest to find true love. Well, it’s not exactly never-ending, as once you find love, everyone’s supposed to live happily ever after, right? Ah, the joys of a steady diet of Disney princesses and pop music. There’s nothing quite like that combination to set one’s romantic expectations at a ridiculous level.

So, is that all this whole dating thing is really about? Is it just a matter of interviewing guys for the role of groom? Does every relationship have to be rated on the commitment scale with those scoring less than a 9.5 being tossed out the window? Not necessarily. Dating doesn’t have to be a prelude to marriage.

There is something to be said for just having a good time with someone you really like. Forget about commitment for a minute. Forget about marriage, too. Maybe your dating experience will lead to true love, and maybe it won’t.

That certainly doesn’t mean that you’re just wasting your time while you find out. After all, there are restaurants to explore, movies to see, walks to take, and-um-other things to do. None of these has “true love” as a prerequisite. O.K., for some people, that other things category might require true love. That’s your choice. Love is nice, but it’s not all there is to dating.

The point is that just because you haven’t found true love doesn’t mean you should melt into a puddle of despair. That’s just silly. Maybe the guy you’re seeing isn’t Mr. Right. So what? Is he fun? Are you enjoying yourself? If so, then there’s no rule against having a good time just because you’re not in love. In fact, it’s sort of your prerogative.

Think about all of your married friends. Yeah, they might talk about how great it is to find that person that-it hurts to even type this-”completes” them; but deep down, most of them are pretty jealous of you. Why do you think they look to you for relationship advice?

That’s not to say that you’ve got it made. Dating can be a lot of fun, but it can be a lot of hard work, too. The problem comes when you focus only on the work aspect and totally forget the part where you’re supposed to have a good time. When every outing is pared down to whether or not you’re going to find love that evening, a lot of the joy disappears from the whole process. Dating should be fun.

Of course, the “dating without true love” approach does have its pitfalls. Just because you’re not falling head-over-heels doesn’t mean that your date isn’t. Dating when you both know it’s not necessarily true love can be a blast. Dating when only one of you understands this element of the relationship can be a total disaster. You have to be up front with the guy, but if you discover you’re both on the same page about the issue, why not set a few ground rules and have a good time?

While the idea here is to enjoy yourself without worrying about true love, it’s not a bad idea to keep in mind that sometimes it does sneak up on you. Be open-minded, but remember that if you’ve agreed ahead of time that you’re dating in a no-true-love zone, he might not be open to the idea if you end up being the one who changes her mind.

Caterina Christakos is a published author and reviewer. Read her latest reviews of the capresso coffee maker and other coffee makers.

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Some women seem to have an endless supply of gorgeous prospects, while others think that, if they were a flower, no bee would visit. How To Attract True Love is often thought a mysterious gift that some have and others lack. In truth, it is a power which resides in each one of us. Here are some thoughts on how to release it.

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How Do You Attract True Love to You? What’s Involved With Attraction?

By Lauren McEachran

Are you looking for your true love? Does true love exist? Is there another person out there that will make us feel complete? Well, it all starts with whether you believe that you can attract true love in the first place. No matter what happens during the process of finding it, you must believe.

Think of the ideal relationship you want to have that will let you know that it’s true love? How will you be talking and acting? How will they be talking and acting? We don’t picture our true love as being someone who is depressed, angry, needy, etc. So make sure that you are acting, talking and visualizing the ways you would want your true love to act and talk. But there are certain methods you can use which are most effective in benefiting you the most during this process of being able to attract true love.

Start right now by loving yourself and others who are already in your life at this moment. You need to become a loving person and a person that’s seen as being easy to love as this will radiate from you. This is where you have to put all your past hurts behind you and concentrate on what you deserve, because we all deserve a true love partner who we can happily share our lives with. Keep yourself happy and positive as often as possible, because we all prefer to be around those types of people. Start to see the good in everything and everyone around you.

Do things that make you feel good about yourself and also let others see the good that you do. To attract a true love that’s more compatible to you, get more involved and active in things you like to do where you could also come across your true love. This could include a sport, the gym, or creative things like learning cooking, crafts or other similar courses.

Make sure that you truly believe in your heart everyday that you ‘will’ attract this true love. Even make note of it if you have to so you don’t get discouraged. This is very important and if you never give up until you find it, then it has to find you too. Remember the old saying, that most relationships are created when we least expect them to.

Don’t actively keep searching for it, just believe with your heart and soul, and then keep yourself busy with other things that make you smile and are fun. We are most attractive to the opposite sex when we are smiling and having fun.

So start being happy with your current situation now, and be grateful for everything that you currently have in your life. Also believe that everything happens for a reason and is to help make you a better person so you can continue to learn and grow. We are all here for a reason and the more that we find the good in each situation, the happier and stronger we will be and other people will also see us portraying strength, love and happiness.

This all puts you in the best possible position to be attracting your true love into your life. It may not happen immediately, but it will start the process. You should be able to feel true love when it arrives. It will be someone who will fall in love with you just the way you are and that includes your flaws. When you want to know ‘How to attract true love’, you really want to know how to make yourself a better person.

Just remember to keep reflecting that positive happy person in everything you do and it will not only attract true love, but also help make the world a better place by affecting those around you.

My name is Lauren and I have become intrigued with how successful relationships work and last. I have also done up an article on How ANY Woman Can Become Irresistible To Men, and another on How To Attract Love with the Law of Attraction. This includes a lot of the information that I have found and believe needs to be expressed that a lot of women are unaware of. So don’t have another argument with your partner, find out how they can understand you better without raising your voice.

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What is the True Meaning of Love in a Relationship?

By Peter Harris

Can anyone define the true meaning of love in a relationship? People often use the word “love” casually in everyday conversation. “I love this house. I love my dog. I love to grow vegetables.” What does this really mean? When we use this word so often does its meaning become watered down so it has less impact? Different people may define love in different ways.

Could love be defined as simply to want and hope the best for someone? This is fairly simplistic and not very deep. If this was the definition of love can it explain the deep emotional bond that two people have with each other; those that commit themselves to one another for a lifetime? Not likely.

You can want and hope the best for dozens of people that you know. Does this mean you are “in love” with them? This may be too simple to define the true meaning of love in a relationship.

If you say you are in love with someone does that bring forth certain assumptions about your feelings for that person? When people say they are in love we assume that they care for, share with and trust the other person. Are these three things the basis for defining love?

Sometimes that fine line between friendship and love becomes difficult to distinguish. Think about the different aspects of the definition of love that I’ve listed already – to want and hope the best for someone; to care for, share with and trust someone. These things could define friendship as well, couldn’t they? If we use the same words to define love and friendship then how can we distinguish between the two?

I think the definition of love goes much deeper than what is mentioned above. These criteria are components of love but they do not fully define it. There is something else that makes up the true meaning of love in a relationship.

This may be something intangible; a feeling that you have that can’t be accurately described in words. In any relationship you can develop and work on the caring, sharing and trust. You can’t force that special feeling that you have when you are truly in love with someone. It’s either there or it isn’t.

Are you interested in learning more about love and relationships? Click here to receive useful information to help you better understand relationships: Loves True Meaning Peter Harris is a health care professional and author and writes frequently about relationships.

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As a major concern for many is how to find true love and lasting happiness, it can be very tempting to blame the circumstances of your life for the absence of joy. However, instead of choosing a path which leads to nowhere, that simply takes you in a circle, consider some more fruitful steps you can take. Here are some that may help. Leave a comment at the end with your own suggestions.

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How to Find True Love and Happiness

By Catherine Buchan

Are you looking for true love? If so, I have some great news for you. True love does exist. It is real but contrary to what’s portrayed in films and novels, it doesn’t hurt. True love can’t actually leave you either. It is available to everyone, everywhere, including you. You too can find true love – and without needing to have had 22 partners first!

Now for the potentially challenging news! It is up to you to make yourself feel happier and more loved, no matter who has done what to you or what you’ve done to others in the past, or your relationship status. However, to find true love you need to look within first.

You need to develop the sort of relationship you want with another person with yourself. In addition to learning to like, love and accept yourself and be true to yourself, you also need to create a life that is fulfilling, meaningful and feeds your passions. Create a life you love and you will live a life of love!

So, rather than sitting at home feeling sad, lonely and unloved on Saturday nights, do something about it now! Start to take responsibility for your own love and happiness.

Take this opportunity to create a life-affirming experience for yourself. Some suggestions you could think about are:-

  • getting to know yourself by journaling about your true needs, feelings, strengths, dreams, passions etc.
  • pampering yourself with a treatment or a soak in the bath;
  • doing something else that inspires you and feeds your soul (perhaps reading poetry or volunteering for a cause);
  • organize a fun day or night with friends in the same position (and whatever you do avoid sitting around ‘men bashing’ or ‘women bashing!);
  • have some childlike fun (perhaps tobogganing or ice skating); Think about what you could do and do what works for you. Happy Valentine’s.
  • Catherine Buchan is a psychological coach and author of the self-help book ’22 Boyfriends to Happiness’. Catherine offers a free 20-minute consultation, true love sessions and a Unique Seven Secrets program tailored to your personal love and relationship issues. Visit http://www.catherinebuchan.com to find out more.

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